Posted by: Mahesh Tabib on: March 29, 2010
Friday Aug 7th, It was another chill early morning in Hubli and I was in deep sleep at 5 A.M.
‘Wake up Mahesh, its 5 already. Come on, get out of bed and get ready. I will prepare tea for you meanwhile’, said mom lighting up the gas burner.
I was travelling to Bangalore to meet couple of my friends. Train for Bangalore leaves at 6.20 from Hubli railway station. Intercity express. Thousands of people board this train every morning and it’s always full and leaves sharp at time.
‘Alright mom’, I said rubbing my eyes coming out of bed. The previous night I slept a bit late and I knew that I would not complete my sleep anyways. I thought I will sleep in the train later.
I brushed my teeth quickly and took bath. Got dressed up and mom was already waiting for me with a cup of tea. I refreshed myself with tea, sprayed some cologne on my clothes. Meanwhile I cross checked my baggage in case I missed anything in hurry. Since my stay at Bangalore was only for 2 days, checklist was pretty short. I hugged mom and she wished me safe journey.
I walked to the railway station. The road to station was almost empty except for few people. Some were carrying bundles of newspapers and other people wearing sweater were sipping hot tea at a stall by the footpath. I walked briskly to the station and got the ticket. Meanwhile I could hear the train arrival-departure announcements.
‘Intercity express from Hubli to Bangalore will be departing from platform number three at 6.20 A.M’
I took the over bridge route to the 3rd platform and started searching for a vacant window seat. Since I had arrived couple of minutes before time, I could find lot of empty seats in the compartments. I moved a bit further and got into the compartment. There were hardly 2 or 3 people. I took the window seat and dumped my backpack on the top shelf. The platform was almost empty towards the engine and the chill wind from across the station tousled my hair. I pulled down the glass window shutter, wore a woolen cap and kept myself warm.
It was almost the departure time and I heard the announcement that train will leave in a while. People rushed in the train and took their seats. Train started moving in few seconds and gained speed as soon as it moved out of station yard. I pulled my cap to cover my ears, took a deep breath and within seconds I dozed off.
The train passed through few stations, I couldn’t realize as I was asleep. Sometime later I could hear lot of noise. I opened my eyes to check if everything was alright. The bogie was full, and still some people were moving in the passage to find a seat. The two seats next to me were also occupied and there were no vacant seats in the compartment. The train left the station and gained pace again. The person sitting next to me was old man, aged somewhere around 55-60. He had a small hand bag which he had kept on his lap. Looking at the handbag I guessed that he was travelling somewhere near and will get down soon. I turned myself to the window and enjoyed the view of every passing object.
Couple of minutes passed and I realized I was hungry. I ate almost every kind of breakfast that I got and sipped a hot cup of coffee and felt relieved.
I opened my bag to get my iPod but I couldn’t find it there; I had left it on my bed in Hubli.
‘God, how will I pass time now’ was my next reaction. When you are travelling, you either need a good company or soothing music. When you don’t have both you ought to get bored and do nothing.
The very next station was Davangere and both the persons sitting beside me got off the train and a fat woman sat on the adjacent seat leaving a seat vacant between us. The train left Davangere in a while. I looked around. Two guys were standing at the doorway and I also noticed a girl, almost of my age in the opposite seat on the corner. I think she must have come aboard at Davangere. She had a bag pack and looked like a student. Every single person around her was staring as if they had never seen a beautiful woman before. I looked at her for some time until she got conscious and looked back at me. I felt embarrassed and sat back comfortably on my seat gazing at the window.
‘Can I take this seat?’ she asked to the old lady sitting adjacent to me. She wanted to sit right next to me. I got a bit conscious. She dumped her backpack on the luggage shelf and sat right next to me. The old lady sitting next to her had occupied almost one and half seat and hence we had to adjust in the rest vacant place available. Now that she is sitting right next to me, I couldn’t even look at her. She kept her legs on the footrest, rested her head on the seat and closed her eyes may be to take a nap.
To describe her, she was maybe two or three inches shorter than me, her skin tone was tan, black hair with a hint of curl, brown eyes and very clear face without any marks. I am not sure if she had applied any lip color, but it looked very natural. As she was sitting right next to me, every time she moved, I could feel her baby-smooth arms and the smell of her perfume was driving me crazy. She wore three gold bangles (Kada actually) and had a ring on both of ring fingers. Her ears were pierced and had small earrings on. She was wearing a light blue salwaar-kameez and was looking absolutely beautiful.
Alright, coming back to where I had left. She woke up in some time coz she had sneezed. Once… Twice… Thrice… and then I stopped counting. I think she sneezed almost a 100 times. I thought she was feeling cold because I had kept the window open.
‘Do you want me to close the window miss?’
‘Oh no, it’s alright’ she said and opened her bag. She took out something, bought it near to her nose and inhaled. It must have been some kind of medicine, to stop her from sneezing. Then she pulled out a paper napkin and cleared her nose. I turned back to the window thinking about what she was doing. I took my bag from the luggage shelf, pulled off my cap and kept it inside. I kept gazing outside the window.
‘Do you work somewhere?’ she asked.
‘Yeah I do.’ And I continued to tell her about where I work. She must have seen the company name printed on my bag I guessed. Well, that is how the conversation started. It’s hard to believe, but in some time we conversed as if we knew each other for long time. She had these beautiful eyebrows which I noticed only after the conversation started. Every time she spoke something, she moved her eyebrows up and down. I was really getting attracted to her simplicity and the way she conversed.
We talked for hours. I had to get down at Yeshwantpur station as my cousin was supposed to pick me up at the station.
‘Alright, this is where I am getting down. It was nice talking to you’
‘It was nice talking to you too’, she said.
I just got off the seat, and said goodbye to her and stood in the passage. The train was yet to halt at the station. At that very moment I thought, ‘That’s it? All this nice conversation and I am never going to meet her again? Should I ask for her contact number?’
The only way to meet her again was if I could contact her. I had a bit of hesitation and lot of such questions in my mind. I was in dilemma whether to ask her number or not. I wasn’t sure if she would like to see me again. What if she doesn’t want to see me again and refuses to give her number. It would be so embarrassing. But if I don’t ask her, I would never get to meet her again. I thought it was worth a try. It was the ‘Never get to meet her again’ thought which made me ask her number.
‘Hey, Can I have your number?’ I asked keeping my fingers crossed.
‘Yes, Sure’ is what she replied. I passed a sigh of relief. I took her number and got down at the station with a big smile on my face.
Thanks to her sneezing, my company bag and of course my iPod which if I had not left it back in Hubli, the conversation would have never happened.
Posted by: Mahesh Tabib on: February 9, 2009
Well, It’s not RSS as in web based format to publish things like blog or new (RSS feed). Rashtriya Swayamsevak Sangh (RSS) is a Volunteers Organization which emphasizes on revival of national consciousness.
Some days back, a person named Ganapati ji (friend of Shreyas) had come to our place. He was wearing a simple homespun cloth Kurta and white pajama, with a homespun cloth bag on his arm, nicely combed hair a pair of glasses on his eyes. Usually I have seen Hindi or Local new reporters in this kind of attire and I mistakenly thought he was one of those. No hard feelings but that was my first impression. Then he introduced himself as a Swayamsevaka and an active member of RSS. Before he decided to serve this organization, he was an IT guy. And off late he is full time working for this organization. I was shocked. What is a guy who used to earn handsome five figure salary doing as a Swayamsevak? I mean, I was surprised why he chose to be a Swayamsevak instead of being a techie.
A week passed and it was another weekend. Being in a support project, it actually feels good when you hear the word weekend. It’s the time when you can sleep all the time with no one asking you not to. It was Saturday and my room-mate had invited Ganapati ji and another friend for Breakfast. They were here till evening and before they left, Ganapati ji asked me to come to Sangha Niketan on Sunday as Krishnappa ji(One of the very senior and old member of RSS) was here. He would share few of his experiences with us and answer questions if we had any. I said I will surely be there though I was not very much interested to.
When I was in 5th grade or so, My Uncle used to take me to Shakha. Usually they conduct such meets in a playground or a garden. They have some events followed by an Inspirational speech. It was fun and we attend such sessions during holidays (not regularly though). It’s been almost 15 years since then and today I was at Sangh Niketan (Karyalaya) with Shreyas.
I learnt that the primary goal of RSS is revival of national consciousness. It is an organization which attempts to bring in awareness and belief in devotion to the Motherland. People have misconceptions about this organization. The word Hindutva is been mistakenly taken as more biased towards Hindu religion. But the truth here is every person who is an Indian is Hindu regardless of his religion or caste. The word Hindu is used here is derived from “Hindustaan” which means the land of Hindu’s. Hindutva emphasizes on oneness of our culture and the country and that is what RSS believes in. RSS rejects caste system and believes in equality of all Hindus. It is not simply about a religion but a way of life. Purpose of the organization is to serve and protect interests of people who treat India as their motherland.
Another good thing is, it doesn’t cost you anything to be a Swayamsevak. Any person who believes he is a Hindu (as it’s defined above) can join RSS and serve the country. Well, that was inspiring for me.
“Namaste Sadaa Vatsale Matrubhoome” – means “My salutation to you forever, loving motherland”
Posted by: Mahesh Tabib on: November 4, 2008
Fashion… It is time for another morality lesson, and unless you’ve been living under a rock with dark glasses on, the promos, articles and posters have let you know that this time the ‘realistic’ director’s gaze has been trained on the morally corrupt world of Fashion. The movie tells a story of the emotional journey of a model. Madhur Bhandarkar has a strong inclination for stories that expose different aspects of modern society and he exerts influence his movies with an element of realism.The movie deciphers the mystery of fashion to the common public. It will take you through the Fashion industry in a span of three hours, with a different style of frankness and spunk. The music isnt great but theres a particlular background score which is really catchy. The movie peeks deep into the reality of the fashion world and touches every single aspect of the industry such as casting couch, gay designers, wild lifestyle of models who can’t handle success, backstage dramas during major fashion shows, manipulative head honchos and attitude problems of successful people.

Well the movie has a huge starcast. Priyanka in the most challenging roles of her career, delivers what was expected out of her. Despite of Kangana given a short role ends up giving an award worthy performance. She looks absolute model-material but still seems to be in a Woh Lamhe hangover, though her role demands that. Somehow here roles in Gangster, Woh Lamhe and Life in a Metro seem to carry a similar stamp. Mugdha Godse shows extreme confidence even though this being her debut film.
The movie may not be the most accurate depiction of the fashion world, but who cares! It’s still entertaining..
Posted by: Mahesh Tabib on: August 8, 2008
“Let’s turn the clocks back. A year ago, these cops and lawyers wouldn’t dare cross any of you. I mean, what happened? Did your – did your balls drop off? Hmm?”
Clown Prince of Crime, Harlequin of Hate. The villain, nastier, the better… U guessed it right, Joker.
Never take anything too seriously, always see the lighthearted and funny side of everything. The Joker makes loads of funny jokes and comments but keep in mind that he doesn’t overdo it. The Joker is not afraid of being locked up. He’s not afraid of Batman. He’s not afraid of the police. He’s not afraid to die. When Batman beat him up while interrogating him, all the Joker did was just laugh. Even if you are already smart, become smarter. The Joker is extremely intelligent and cunning no matter how crazy he seems. He always has backup plans and people doing his dirty work. The Joker is an evil, murdering sociopath, yet whenever he’s on the screen one can’t look away. The Joker has an air of confidence and is very interesting from his mannerisms to the things he says. The Joker is known for being, well, a joker.
Its just the schizophrenia, remember this line from the movie “it’s all part of the plan”. Just because he does things so well doesn’t mean he’s planning them. His “Plan” is to just “Do things”. Remember when he said that to two faces, “I just do things”. The Joker was planning things but one of his great tricks was making it appear as if he wasn’t planning anything. The Joker was always at least three steps ahead of everyone else when it came to his thinking and plans. What makes Ledger’s performance so great is his uncanny ability to portray to us a person who is truly and in every way, insane. No one was pardoned from the Joker’s wrath. And when I mean no one…I mean, no one.
“What does not kill you, makes you…stranger”
I’m hooked. Rest in peace Heath Ledger
Posted by: Mahesh Tabib on: August 7, 2008
I wanted to gift her something precious, as precious as the Diamonds. Yes, I had bought a diamond earring for her. The Blood diamond.
I caught up on Blood Diamond on a rerun today, but this time I thought of writing something on it.
Who hasn’t heard of the slogan “A diamond lasts forever”? Diamonds have always occupied a very high status in the world of jewelry. Fueled by tradition and intense marketing campaigns, diamonds have achieved incomparable status. Starry eyed young men present gorgeous diamond rings to their girlfriends. Married couples exchange diamond studded jewelry over the years as symbols to their undying love. Celebrities and personalities don fabulous diamond jewelry whenever they go out in public. There is absolutely no doubt as to how valuable and sought after diamonds are. I’m new to the blood diamond issue but the movie Blood Diamond planted the seed of awareness. One more thing that came out of all this is the diamond companies have systematically held diamond prices at levels far greater than their abundance would generate under anything even remotely resembling perfect competition. The biggest diamond traders manage world diamond supply in order to keep prices steadily high.
As with most things in life, there is always something bad mixed with the good. A diamond may be a woman’s best friend but a diamond can also be the bane of some people’s existence – and I am not talking about the man’s pocket here. For those who don’t know what I am talking about, Blood diamonds, often called conflict diamonds, are mined in war torn African countries by rebels to fund their conflict. The rebels grossly abuse human rights, often murdering and enslaving the local populations to mine the diamonds.
Will my boycotting of them make the slightest bit of difference? As I have said, I don’t think that one’s refusal to buy diamonds will have much of an impact on demand, what it will effect is the price paid for the stones. Point being that there are so many products that we all use day to day and that a good many of them have unpleasant tries associated with their production. I personally would not wear Ivory- due to the slaughter of such a magnificent species and the crime associated with the trade, and injury or death of ivory smugglers who don’t get to their destination. That’s my personal choice. Do you see what I mean? There are countless products that unfortunately add to the toll of human and other casualties along the line of their production. Diamonds are not the only one. I watched Blood Diamond and was very moved by it- a very chilling tale.
Let’s stop this crime. I just want to say, “My Future wife isn’t getting a diamond”…